Saturday, June 7, 2014

Gratitude

I .so thankful that my husband is coming to visit me today.
I cannot wait to hold him and love him.  I am so lucky to have the most amazing husband, the most amazing kids, and the most amazing life.   I am so lucky to be able to have a bright future to look forward to.  I am so lucky to live where I live and to have a beautiful house and my dad's house on the beach.    I am truly blessed.

Today is the first day of the rest of my life.  And I get to spend it with my husband.  
That is the most amazing thing I can think of. 

Saturday, March 1, 2014

Happiness – Live by Injecting happiness into all that you do.

Today I will inject happiness into all that I do.

I will smile.
I will talk with joy. 
I will move with joy.
I will use my body language with a smile.
I will practice feeling smiles and joy all over my body.
I will find a smile and joy inside.
I will reflect it outward.   
I will attempt to bring joy to my family and everyone I interact with by sending them positive smiles and loving kindness.  

Today, injecting happiness, smiles and joy into everything is my goal of the day.    And I will see how it change me by the end of the day, and what kind of difference it made.  For me, for my body, for my family, and for anyone I interact with.


Friday, February 28, 2014

The happiness Project - My Life Plan

Starting with each area of my life, here are the categories I'm going to conquer: 

Vision For the Future – Have a vision for your life and grand future.  Delcare it.

Life vision – What is your grand footprint that you are going to leave in this world.

Meditate – Each day, be still and clear the mind. 

Family Relationships – Spend time with those you love and LOVE them, enjoying, playing and laughing.

Friends – Spend time developing old friendships and making new ones.  Be interested.  Be kind.  Be loving.  

Get Busy --  Step into life.  Interact with people, do things, occupy your mind with things that are outside yourself. 

Eat – Whole organic natural foods that make the body healthy and heal cells. 

Exercise – Get your body moving, flowing, and strong.  Make goals to get stronger.  Move.  

Read – Learn new skills in different areas of life.
  
Write -- Write again.  Scripts, novels, anything that you want to get down on paper.   Learn and inspire with your message.

Sex – Love another and let your feel good hormones flow.

Character – Build character.   Think about how you want to treat people and what you stand for.

Finances --   What can you earn.  What can you contribute.  What can you save, invest, what assests.

Career – What would you like to do, what projects to do want to take on, what do you want to spend time on? 

Fun Time – Think about what you want to do in your free time, on vacation. 

Parenting – Build your bond with your kids and teach your kids. 

Intention Setting – Declare how you want life and the day to unfold 

Gratitude – Reasons why you are grateful for your life

Happiness – Live by Injecting happiness into all that you do.  Smile.  Find the joy.  

Sleep – Allow your body and mind to rest, heal, and rejuvinate.

Contribution - What do you want to contribute to the world, and how.

It's time to break down this list and start moving forward in each area of my life.   Miracles don't just happen, I must UP and be GOING!!!  


 

Tomorrow is March!

Today is one of those days, when you wonder if it will EVER be spring.   It's -20 outside, yet again, and the snow is white and the air is more than crisp.  The sun makes the snow glisten like little ballerina's twirling like stars on opening night.    And the cold blue sky stands still.  

But did I mention tomorrow is MARCH?   March, already!   And even though the groundhog said that it was going to be six more weeks of winter, I can already sense what is to come.   Soon, maybe in another 2 or 3 weeks, the sun will come out, the temperature will rise, and the cold dry snow will turn wet and begin to melt like freezies on a warm summer day.  It will drip and begin to make slush puddles.   There will suddenly be more birds dancing and diving in the sky, and the chirping will get louder.  Neighbors will be outside putting Christmas décor away.   People will begin to take off their hats, and unzip their coats, and the lake, now frozen over, will give way for the sound of waves as the ice breaks up and we begin to see the blue water once again.

The world will take on this cheerfulness about it.   The promise of new life, hope, and budding flowers will be upon us.  And walking outside, once again, will become something that feels easy and fun.  

So while, everyone huddles inside today, on the last gorgeous and perhaps coldest day of the year, I like to think about what's coming.   And, oh, it's going to be good.  Spring will soon be in the air.   So for now, enjoying the last days of winter and all this glistening white powder reminds me about how amazing seasons are.  About how everything can change in an instant, and how there is ALWAYS a bright wonderful spring that follows even the coldest of winters.

And this, I think is one of the most conforting and rewarding thoughts there is.

 

Thursday, January 23, 2014

Faith

Faith is considered having confidence or trust in something without empirical evidence.

It's about trust, belief, hope. 

It's more than a strong conviction... it's the deepest belief and hope inside yourself that never waivers.

Now, faith isn't easy when the chips are strongly stacked in the opposite direction.  So what makes faith possible?   How can you choose to believe at such a deep level when there is no evidence at all? 
It comes down to that little voice inside you... your soul. 
The one that, when the chips are down, has you look deep inside and answer the question.   WHAT DO I BELEIVE? 

Do I believe in possibility?
Do I believe in happiness?  Health?  Abundance?  Change?   Peace?

Basically, it comes down to the question, do I believe in happy endings?  And do I believe that in this one? 

If you answer no, you might as well give up.
But if you answer yes, than you need to draw on faith.  Deep deep faith and believe and hope and love and the power of the universe to deliver your deepest desires.   You must hold onto this faith in the darkest of times and KNOW that your happiness, your health, your abundance, peace, change, and happy ending is coming.

Faith is about JUMPING.  Then holding on.   And never letting go.
Faith is about kicking FEAR to the curb.   Kicking uncertainty and worry and defeat out of your life.

You have to be strong to have faith.
It is what keeps you going.  It is what keeps the dream alive.  Faith, trust, belief, hope, and love.   They are all basically the same thing.   They are the essence of the very best of the human spirit and where are stories of triumph come from.

It all starts with faith.

Wednesday, January 22, 2014

The Power Of a Smile

Smiles have amazing power.

They can change your mood, outlook, and whole day.   It just has a way of lifting you up.
And not only can they give your mood a lift, they can give somebody else's mood a lift too.

So today, I'm going to practice smiling.
And a smile isn't only something plastered on your face.   A smile also shows as a twinkle in your eye, a smile in your voice, a smile in your gestures and the way you touch, talk, and move.  

You can smile with your face, eyes, voice, and whole body.   Every part of your body, heart, and mind can smile.    And even if you feel awful, sick, scared, or sad -- a smile, over time, can change the way you look at the world.  It can change your body chemistry and even help create new healthy cells in your body.

So today I will smile as often as I can, and in as many ways as I can.
And I will notice what happens as I do.

Smiles are free and they are magical.  

And, my guess, is they hold more power than almost anything.

Tuesday, January 21, 2014

Once Upon a Time...

There was a woman with two amazing kids, a loving supporting wonderful husband, a caring amazing dad, a loving wonderful extended family, and a wonderful mom (now an angel) who taught her how to have the best life ever!!

She is truly TRULY blessed.

And even though she's been through some hard times, she always comes out on top.  Because THAT'S what life is all about.   Learning, healing, and moving forward.   To the BEST DAYS AND THE BEST LIFE AND THE BEST PERSON YOU CAN BE.

Happiness is a choice.  No matter WHAT is going on.  No matter what circumstances, no matter what you have to face.   You can still choose to live a super amazing happy love filled life.

And that is how you heal your life, health, and situation.

By focusing on the GOOD parts and making every part the BEST it can possibly be, no matter what.   Whatever threatens to take us down, is not as strong as LOVE.  It is not as strong as the FEELING in your heart.  And that is the feeling you CAN choose.   The heart is ALL mine to choose with it what I will. 

And this girl chooses to live happily ever after.

THAT IS MY DESTINY.